Asian Tomboys

Anonymous asked: hello :) i am a girl, 16. how would you call/classify me ? well, i am a little bit attracted to boys but i am extremely attracted to tomboys. they`re seriously handsome and i don`t why i have this crazy feeling when i see one. ;) please give me some advice or anything... thank you <3


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I mean I’m not a big person on labeling others. But you liking boys and tomboys I would think you could just possibly be pan sexual. I mean you didn’t say anything about liking girls who aren’t tomboy so I wouldn’t really say bi. But it really doesn’t matter on what I really say but who you think you are. You could think you’re bi or straight or pan it’s all up to you. Look up those sexuality and decide for yourself to be sure.

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forzacheem asked: @straight white male anon, maybe you shouldn't tell the asian tomboy you're interested in that you're "very attracted to asian girls". that's creepy as fuck. don't fight me on this, most asian girls would not take that as a compliment.


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Well I didn’t think he would straight up go to her and say that he’s into asian girls and that he has come to a liking towards her. I mean I did say that he should be careful about his actions, wording and tone when he talks to her. In all honesty if he does be polite and confesses that he’s interested in a polite way I think she’ll take it more on the flattering side, I know I would. I personally wouldn’t like when a guy just straight up goes towards me and be like “yeah I like asian girls and you’re one but a tomboy but I like that” that’s where I would think he was a jerk. But if he was gentler, polite and formal I think it would be flattering.

— 1 week ago
Anonymous asked: Hi. I'm a straight white guy who's very attracted to Asian girls. Recently I've found myself attracted to a Chinese tomboy that works in a local restaurant. I'd love to ask her out, but I've heard that tomboys tend to be gay, so if I ask her out she may think I'm a moron for thinking I can get a date with a lesbian. I'm in no way prejudiced against gays. I just want to know if there's a way to tell if an Asian tomboy is gay or not, or if there's a polite way to ask without sounding like a dick.


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Hello! Aawww this is one of the cutest messages I’ve ever read! I’m glad you came for help. I mean yes some tomboys are lesbian but not all are(which you already know). I can’t say I would be able to know if she was gay if I’ve never met her before. But maybe paying attention to how she reacts to different kinds of people. Maybe you’ll see her sexual preference then. I mean it wouldn’t hurt to ask her for a date even if she is lesbian. A polite way which I think would be to first excuse yourself and ask her on a date possibly. If she was not interested I would think she would say so and maybe say that she is gay if she is. Your actions, tone, and wordings all go into play on how polite you would sound or seem. So don’t do anything that would seem rude. If you’re honestly just asking for a date make sure you show that to her. But don’t rush into asking her on a date. Do some small talk maybe you’ll get to know more about her then. If any of you other followers have any suggestions or pointers for this fellow help him out! Message me and I’ll post your guys’ helpful tips and stuff! I wish you the most happiest of lucks! GOOD LUCK!! ❤️

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Anonymous asked: Hi, i just found this cool Tumblr account, I'm 17 and a tomboy from Indonesia, i just want to ask, i have a short hair but i don't know how to style it, if you know Hyun Bi Hyul, my hair kinda looks like her but more shorter. its kinda fun i used to be so girly but now you know, hehe. And do you know how to make a feminine face to look attractive (in tomboy way) without a lot of make up? imma tomboy but my face didn't look like it, i have a large eyes and thick eyelashes


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Hi! ^ ^ I’m not so good with writing out how things would help your hairstyle or make up. But I’ll try lol. First the hair, if you have the front bangs as well I think it’ll be okay to give your hair little slight waves all around the head. Not too wavy or curly or that can turn out to be in a ball shape. As for your make up I would say just do your eyebrows naturally and eyeliner a minimum and then you probably won’t be needing mascara if you have long lashes, just need to curl them. I’m sorry I’m not much of a help in writing to you but since I’ve been getting a few messages to style hair, makeup and outfits I think it’s about time to make my videos on YouTube. I’ll announce it on this tumblr page if I do decide to do them. And then I’ll probably be more of a help to you then. But before then Good Luck!

— 1 week ago
Anonymous asked: Growing up I was a tomboy and was constantly kicked out of the girl's fitting room at stores and stared at when I'd exit the women's restrooms. I want to be a tomboy again, but I'm worried about people thinking that I'm always in the wrong place. Should I go into the men's or women's fitting room and what bathroom should I use?


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Hi there! That’s a hard question lol and honestly I’ve had that happen to me a couple of times. I think you should enter into the bathroom where you decide which gender you are. I wouldn’t say to go into the boys bathroom just because it’s easier. Because maybe one day you do get caught going into the boys bathroom and then a whole commotion comes out of it because you can’t prove that you are a boy besides what your feelings and what you think. People want solid evidence or you’ll be pushed into something you don’t want to be involved with. If you go into the girls bathroom and there is a misunderstanding then you can easily prove you are in fact a girl without using your body to show it. I just go into the girls bathroom. Yes it’s sometimes hard and annoying when people are telling you you’re going the wrong way but honestly I don’t give a crap to what they say or think. I personally just would never have the courage to go into the boys bathroom or fitting room for that matter. I say whichever genders’ place is more comfortable for you, you should go into that one. Just please make sure not to get into a big misunderstanding. Hope this helped!

— 1 week ago
Anonymous asked: I've been wanting to cut my hair in an Asian Tomboy style for weeks, but everyone in my family keeps telling me that It would look bad and I would not be pretty if I did cut it that short. I'm 15 and I girl btw. I was just wondering if you had any tips on how I could convince them that it's not a horrible decision and how to persuade them into accepting it?


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Maybe you shouldn’t chop all of your hair just yet then. I would saw cut it short like a bob hair cut or like those long hair that a lot of Japanese men have. And once they get used to seeing it shorter cut some more off to the desired length that you wanted. That’s what I did to get my friends used to my hairstyle. But honestly they don’t even remember. They only remember my hair cut now. So just slowly let them adjust so that they can be more used to it. It also gives you time to make sure you want that short hair cut and not regret the decision. Best of luck to you!

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Anonymous asked: Sorry for asking but are you more attracted to guys or girls?


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Honestly more to guys but it’s because I was straight before. I didn’t have my first girlfriend until last year. It was long distance. But I am open minded./p>

— 1 month ago
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm 13 this year and I'm a tomboy in Singapore. I was wondering what type of casual clothes (affordable and stylish) I can wear outside home? My mom sort of opposes me being a tomboy so yeah :/ I really would appreciate your response, thanks!


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Hello! I am honestly going to say I’m sorry but I’m not sure what kinds of stores there are in Singapore because I’ve never been there. But I’m sure most of the popular stores are there too? I think H&M are reasonably priced maybe Forever21 and possibly GAP. Those are my main stores to go over here. But honestly I would just say go to your local stores that might not be brand or popular. They might be cheap and have really comfy clothes that look nice. I know that I go to Target to buy some closes sometimes(mostly shoes) and Target isn’t even a clothes shop. So I would say just keep your eye open for new things and new stores. I’m sorry I wasn’t helpful too much on this subject.

— 1 month ago
Anonymous asked: I wanna become a tomboy however I am sometimes considered to large in others eyes ...what should I do.


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Just because you’re not what others think of who should be able to be a tomboy become one to your liking! If you want to, go for it! I’ll support you! You don’t need those others giving you negative comments about how you should be looking or how you should live. Screw them for being inconsiderate human beings! If you want to be a tomboy be one! And rock that style so no one can say anything! Believe in yourself and be who you want to be! Best wishes and Good Luck!~

— 1 month ago
Anonymous asked: Hello I was creepin' around your tumblr and I was just wondering why you don't think you're attractive? I find you attractive and not only because of how you look. I also like how you presume yourself. Sorry you don't have to answer this.


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Lol Aawww thank you! That was really nice to read. To be honest I just don’t find myself attractive and honestly I don’t get many “oh you’re attractive” comments. But i don’t really care lol because I wanna be me and be who I am. But I’m glad that you think I am attractive not only by my looks but how I am. I think you’re an honest person and I love that! Thank you so much for the chat! And of course I would reply back! I love talking to you guys and helping you guys because not only am I helping you guys but I’m helping myself. I thank you all for your love and support! THANK YOU ALL!! ❤️❤️❤️💋

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